Practices That Lead to a More Fulfilling Life
Written by Kristin Barton Cuthriell, M.Ed., MSW, LCSW
Today when I become frustrated, disappointed, angry, or impatient, I will ask myself three questions.
Will this matter next month?
Will this matter next year?
Is this a life changing event?
I will then calm myself and breathe; knowing that it is only my reaction to the event that is life changing.
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Love the photo Kristin…soothing. As to the strategy, if only to effectively execute and stay calm and centered…great post
Deep breath.
Good strategy.
Hey there Kristin, these are great questions. I have to say, though, as someone who just started taking Zoloft for depression and anxiety: I cannot process these questions in the midst of that disease. What I mean to say is, when I’m not anxious or depressed I can calm myself relatively easily with these kinds of questions. But when I am anxious and depressed, no amount of logical thinking can ‘right my ship’. Maybe that should have been a sign for me years ago…”People keep saying stuff like this but it doesn’t work for me… I wonder why?”
Thank you for commenting. Research dialectical behavioral therapy skills and Marsha Linehan. Her skills take practice, but are evidence based. My thoughts are with you.
Yes, fishing helps a lot to calm the soul. So quiet on that lake. Time to think, or let your mind go blank for a while. Whatever works.
I agree. Thank you for commenting.
Reblogged this on Todd's Perspective and commented:
Although life is unmanageable we do have the power to choose our reactions…
Thank you, Todd.
LOL. Thanks for contributing to my blog…
That should be printed on a card and kept in our pockets as a reminder in difficult times. Nice one.
A reminder in the pocket would be great! Thank you, Stuart.
Your timing is impeccable. This week has brought great stress and your thoughtful simple post gives me a much needed perspective. I am going to read, recite and repeat. Ohmmmm
I am glad it was good timing. Thank you for reading.
Indeed your timing is impeccable. I live in Ottawa, home of the Ottawa Senators, going into Game 7 in New York. Breathe . . . breathe . . .
I am glad it was good timing. Good luck with game 7. Thanks for commenting.
Love it!
Thank you.
So true, I needed that today! so all the stuff that I got mad about today, no…it doesn’t matter… THANK you:-)
You are welcome. Thank you for your comments. I have had to ask myself the three questions several times today.
Haha, I hear you:-)
I have posted this in my office…Thanks for the reminder..!!
Thank you! I am glad that it can help.
It is really excellent advice for stress and such . . . but having lost my son at 28 puts me and others like me into a different realm. I’m still struggling to not give in to the grief and pain of such a catastrophic loss. I enjoyed visiting your blog – thanks for sharing your insights.
I have another blog on grief – http://thedonjon.wordpress.com
Donna, please see my reply following your other comments. My thoughts are with you.