Self-Compassion and Accountability

hugSelf-compassionate people hold themselves accountable for their actions.

They are not threatened by their mistakes. Because they do not judge themselves harshly, they are able to admit their mistakes. Because they are able to admit their mistakes, they are able to learn from them and own them. Because they own them they are less likely to blame others for them. They are also less likely to deny or rationalize their unacceptable behaviors. [Read more...]

45 Characteristics of Healthy Relationships + The Secret to Applying Them

Is your relationship healthy? 

Relationships take work.  Hard work.  But the rewards to having a fulfilling relationship are MANY.  Are you doing the things necessary to keep your relationship strong?  Could it be stronger?  Look for ways to improve your relationship today and everyday. [Read more...]

Your First Step to an Improved Life

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We teach our children by example

Love      gratitude      respect      faith      humility      responsibility      joy      hope     kindness      courage     generosity     self-esteem      honesty      willingness to work      perseverance      compassion      self-discipline      contentment      integrity      forgiveness      patience      teamwork….

We teach our children by example.  What do you want them to learn?

Relationships: Connecting the Past with the Present

Robert Plutchik's Wheel of Emotions

Robert Plutchik's Wheel of Emotions (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Written by Kristin Barton Cuthriell, M.Ed, MSW, LCSW

Be mindful and aware of what is really happening in the present. 

Painful feelings stemming from past emotional wounds have a way of resurfacing in our present day relationships.  Although this concept is nothing new, many of us are totally unaware of what is happening when our feelings surrounding old injuries are triggered.  We may believe that the prompting event in the here and now is the sole cause of our emotional distress without connecting the dots to the past.  Many times what is happening in the present is a reminder, either conscious or unconscious, of our history.  Displaced emotion can wreak havoc on our current relationships if we do not really know what is going on within us. [Read more...]

Goal Setting Tips and Daily Motivation

Written by Kristin Barton Cuthriell, M.Ed, MSW, LCSW

People often say that motivation doesn’t last.  Well, neither does bathing, that’s why we recommend it daily. –Zig Zigler

What can you do to daily motivate yourself? [Read more...]

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